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Done driving down that one-way street. Too much effort for once a year sex.

I liked the explanation, thank you ❣

Thank you - good job explaining codependence.

. Most people develop trauma precisely because people don't come to help, because there is a lack of attuned and responsive relationships. This is clearly part of the self care nonsense....without realising that preaching this stuff is exactly how we fail people and indeed whole societies.

Leave, and within 24 hours of it becoming clear there is no nookie. Life is too short to put up with such nonsense from such selfish controlling women. A woman will never truly respect her man, unless on some level she knows she will lose her man. A side benefit I have found with being respected by your woman is that lack of nookie is never ever an issue, unless there is some temporary physical reason such as immediately after birth, the mom is in no fit state for nookie, but if she truly cared and respected her man, she would find ways to take care of her man's needs without normal intercourse. That's my two cents worth.

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I WILL MARRY YOU

It was my husband who divorced me last year after 11years married.he done this 7 weeks after leaving.now I'm on my own.i never wanted that at all 😢

With how men are treated these days; incompetent, worthless, invalid. Men need to stop dealing with sexless relationships. Go where you are treated best.

Thanks for this vidéo

After over ten years, and my youngest son has graduated, I'm done. I don't even WANT to have s3x with a person who has turned into a roommate. I'm 57yo; I don't want to waste any more time with my 'wife.'

"Chads" who are free thinking (they don't need babies), can get lots of "fun" without putting a ring on it. It's the Normies that must pay via marriage. The Sub-5's ... oh well, a trip to SEA for P4P.

Divorce her.

This is very helpful. Thank you! It helps me to know I’m not crazy.

Thanks, great❤

After listening to this info I feel there may be some fine lines between just being a "helpful person" & a "meddler"... 🤔

It’s probably the rescuer that needs rescuing, cuts deep!

I am so happy I got out of it😊 I thought it was love but now I know it was only my definition of love

This should have more views and likes💙

Sell off all your shit and Disappear. Leave her with nothing. And flee the state. Don't wait for her to divorce you which is her plan. Dont let her know your next move.

😢 Sounds a little familiar

Ugh. This is painfully true. I’ve always been a generous person, even as a child. Just now figuring out I have AuDHD and grew up in a covert narc household set that up for me. I’m much better now thank God!

It doesn't always work. You can't get rid of a narcissistic. Once you have been abused by them you cannot forget.

My wife and I met a woman who, during times, ended up apologizing to her husband that she was not his "dream girl". That was not the woman that he married. What if, every time a man gets in position to finally see his "dream girl", he finds out she's not really there? What if you'd married the "ideal woman" just to find she hates you. The older I get, the more it is that I believe, marry the problem, not the cure. The cure will only kill you.

When women "date up", those men are dating down

Don't marry anybody whose shenanigans will cause you to underperform.

Where can I do the assessment?

The problem with married women is they don't want sex.

I somewhat agree x

I needed to hear this...actually I'm at the beginning of a new relationship and I 've noticed that I 'm falling into that unconditional love pattern and it's someting bad for both sides odf the relationship. Your point really helped me to see it clearer, so thank You very much and I'm looking forward to more videos of a similar topic or a follow up of this one.

I believe that unconditional love is the basis of marriage. Honoring boundaries is related to respect and communication among others. But a separate topic.

No. Loving someone doesn't lead to toxic behaviour.On neither part, if it's reciprocated and mutual.True love doesn't mean that you tolerate everything, but if love has conditions, it isn't love. You should stay away from these definitions. You're setting yourself up for failure in a relationship. Wether you love somebody or not is beyond your control. What consequences you draw, isn't. Love is, by definition, without conditions.

Unconditional love is from God and doesn't negate healthy boundaries. Unconditional love is necessary. It is hard sometimes for some more than others, but it must be a mutual commitment. And it is not the lover's fault where/if their partner chooses to abuse them or their love.

Very much agree! I had an ex who's friends helped twist her mind with non transactional/unconditional views of relationships. There always has to be giving and receiving. Even the notion of having a boundary sets a condition 🤦 love me no matter what I do! And people wonder why they don't keep relationships or always want more love. I could listen and talk about this stuff for hours. Thanks for sharing because this needs to be heard and understood more. It can really hurt people not understanding love.

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Lmao imagine doing all that emotional work, while paying the bills, letting her live in your house, providing and protecting. NO WAY, ma'am. Everyone is talking about what women need, completely ignoring what men need. And we don't really need much. But we NEED sex. If a women doesn't have to want sex with her husband - that's her problem and SHE must fix it. Imagine husbands would be like "darling I don't feel like paying the bills this month". Modern western world is so female-centrist, men are just working mules, and nobody fcking even cares about giving bare minimum to us. Kings, LEAVE relationships where your needs - even so basic ones as physical intimacy - are NOT met. Trust me, been there know that. You will be much happier. If you can, just go abroad. Western civilization is dying "thanks" to feminism, depopulation is real and family as a social construct is dead

Step one. Get a divorce

what to do - divorce and live your own life.

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No one explores ANYTHING. No specialty of medicine thinks critically. Thank you and agree!

Oh no I better get help asap

OMG! This exact thing happened to me! And I burned out & it has taken a decade for me to recover! 😬🤯😡

N@ked Recovery: who hurt you with the empty seat conundrum?😂 Great vid!

Very helpful. Love the chess analogy. I couldn't mediate though. My ex used those sessions to perform, as she had an audience now. You said "find out what their alienating style is and have a plan that contradicts this". Very helpful If they're saying you are always late, make sure you're always early.

I don’t care what other people think. The biggest pain was unrealised dreams. And how i could no longer share my life with someone who has changed or would not change. It has been almost four years and we are at least on civil terms but the pain of its finality remains.

Yep. Got this situation sort of in my family. It's hard to remember the nuances and realities that govern our actions. Especially when both parties are stressed and tired.

This is great advice unless one grew up with a narcissist. I tried, desperately, to give my mother everything; she has begun doing the horrible things she did to me to my son.

Brilliant information here

What if no amount of attention and care is enough. They disappear and appear months after with agression and force and their needs need to be met immeaditely so they can go aways their ways again without any care for their childs health, life etc. And this is whole upbringing time. Is it more important fpr them to retire as "parents" or children to grow as healthy and vital community members

I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other. I think humans should just ditch concepts like dating, marriage, and pair bonding. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it. In my opinion, romantic love should not be on the highest pedestal. In my opinion, parents and siblings' family love is the strongest. Family knows who you are. Romance is fake for lots of people, put on a false persona and romance on most parts gets ugly real fast. For the reality of romance is no Disney love story. Parents and siblings' family love is one of the strongest types of love there is. If romantic love is actually real, it would be one of the weakest types of love there is.